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Elopement vs. Micro Wedding: Which is Right for You?

Updated: Dec 9


A Welcome Sign for a micro wedding at the front of the Greenhouse.
Elopement or Micro Wedding

Planning your wedding day involves countless decisions, but one of the most significant is determining the type of celebration that best fits your vision. Two increasingly popular options are elopements and micro weddings. While both are more intimate alternatives to traditional weddings, they cater to different needs and guest counts. Let’s explore the differences between an elopement and a micro wedding, and what you should consider when planning either.


What Is an Elopement?

An elopement is typically defined as a wedding ceremony with a very small guest list, often no more than 10 guests, and in many cases, just the couple and an officiant. Elopements are cherished for their simplicity, intimacy, and freedom from the complexities of traditional wedding planning. They are often held in unique or meaningful locations, such as a mountaintop, beach, or even our greenhouse.


Key Benefits of an Elopement


  • Minimal Planning: Elopements are straightforward to organize, requiring fewer details like seating charts or catering plans.

  • Cost-Effective: With fewer guests, expenses for food, rentals, and decor are significantly reduced.

  • Intimacy: The focus is entirely on the couple, making it a deeply personal and emotional experience.

  • Flexibility: You can choose any location or time without worrying about accommodating a large group.



What Is a Micro Wedding?

A micro wedding, on the other hand, includes more guests—typically between 10 and 50. It combines the intimacy of a small gathering with some of the elements of a traditional wedding, such as a ceremony, reception, and sometimes even a dance floor.


Key Benefits of a Micro Wedding

  • Shared Joy: You can include your closest friends and family without the overwhelming size of a large wedding.

  • Personal Touch: Smaller guest lists allow you to focus on creating memorable experiences with your attendees.

  • Celebration Elements: You can incorporate wedding traditions, such as toasts, a first dance, or a cake-cutting ceremony, on a smaller scale.



The Hybrid Option: Elopement with a Micro Wedding Guest List


Sometimes, couples opt for an elopement-style ceremony with a micro wedding-sized guest list, especially if the reception is held at a separate venue. This hybrid approach offers the best of both worlds:


Key Benefits of the Hybrid Option

  • Intimate Ceremony: You can enjoy the intimacy of an elopement for the vows, keeping the focus on the couple’s connection.

  • Inclusive Guest List: Invite up to 50 of your closest friends and family to witness the ceremony, ensuring loved ones can still be part of your special day.

  • Separate Reception: Holding the reception elsewhere allows you to shift the celebration to a space better suited for dining, dancing, or other traditional activities.

  • Logistical Flexibility: This option allows for creative planning, such as hosting a sunrise ceremony at an intimate location followed by an evening reception at a larger venue.


Important considerations for the Hybrid Option

  • Time Management: Allocate enough time for guests to arrive and settle into both locations, if applicable.

  • Venue Coordination: Ensure both the ceremony and reception venues complement each other in style and logistics.

  • Budgeting: While potentially more affordable than a large wedding, make sure your venue has enough seating and tables to accommodate guests.



Planning Considerations for a Micro Wedding

While micro weddings are more intimate, they still involve more logistics than an elopement. One key difference is accounting for your guests’ needs during the event. Here are some tips to ensure a smooth experience:


Allow Time for Guests to Arrive

With more attendees, it’s essential to schedule time for your guests to arrive and settle in. This includes:

  • Parking: Ensure your venue has adequate parking and consider whether signage or attendants will be needed.

  • Greeting: Build in time for guests to say hello to one another and take their seats comfortably.


Plan for Goodbyes

Guests will likely want to congratulate you personally, say goodbye, and perhaps hand you a gift. Allowing sufficient time for these interactions ensures no one feels rushed and avoids situations where guests must follow up later to deliver gifts or share their sentiments.


Book Enough Time

Avoid the temptation to book the minimum time for your venue or photographer. A rushed schedule can detract from the joy of the day, leaving you and your guests feeling hurried. Instead, give yourself the breathing room to savor each moment and ensure all planned activities run smoothly.




Decorated by a local Columbus GA designer for a micro wedding, this look is available by request but not how the greenhouse is set up normally.
Greenhouse Micro Wedding or Elopement

Why Choose Our Greenhouse Venue?

Located in Smiths Station, AL, our greenhouse venue provides the perfect setting for your elopement or micro wedding. Our venue offers:


  • Stunning Aesthetic: Beautiful year-round decorations and natural lighting make it ideal for capturing unforgettable photos.

  • Weather Protection: Enjoy the beauty of an outdoor feel with the comfort and protection of an indoor space.

  • Privacy and Exclusivity: The venue is reserved exclusively for you, ensuring a tranquil and intimate experience. No strangers or additional rentals on the property at the same time.

  • Convenient Pricing: Our rates are $99/hour, $499 for a half day, or $999 for a full day, making it an affordable option for any budget.


Whether you’re planning a romantic elopement or an intimate micro wedding, our greenhouse provides the perfect backdrop for your special day. Book your session easily at greenhouse-venue.com and let us help bring your vision to life.


Our greenhouse venue is not only a stunning space for photography but also a cherished setting for elopements, micro weddings, and other intimate celebrations. Over the last couple years, we've had the honor of hosting countless special moments, and our expertise shines in creating a private, beautifully curated environment that ensures every event feels uniquely personal. Whether you're planning a small wedding or a meaningful gathering, our venue provides the perfect backdrop for memories to last a lifetime.



Other Important Considerations


Whether you’re planning an elopement or a micro wedding, here are some additional factors to keep in mind:


Venue Selection

For an elopement, choose a location that holds special meaning or offers a breathtaking backdrop. For a micro wedding, ensure your venue can comfortably accommodate your guest count while maintaining an intimate feel.


Photography and Videography

Both elopements and micro weddings benefit from professional photography or videography. These services help you relive the moments and share them with loved ones who couldn’t attend.


Vendor Coordination

Even for a micro wedding, keep the vendor list simple. Consider working with a wedding planner or asking the venue for suggestions or packages, specifically ones that are experienced in smaller events to streamline the process.


Guest Experience

For micro weddings, think about how to make the experience memorable for your guests. Small, thoughtful touches like personalized favors or handwritten notes can make a big impact.


Backup Plans

For outdoor elopements or micro weddings, always have a backup plan in case of weather changes. Renting a tent or selecting a venue with an indoor options or flexible reschedule policy can save the day.



Final Thoughts

Deciding between an elopement, a micro wedding, or a hybrid option ultimately comes down to your priorities and vision for your special day. Elopements offer unmatched intimacy and simplicity, while micro weddings provide an opportunity to celebrate with your closest loved ones. The hybrid option allows you to blend these benefits, creating a truly personalized experience. Whichever option you choose, thoughtful planning and attention to detail will ensure your wedding is as magical as you’ve always dreamed.

For more tips and guidance on planning your intimate wedding, explore our other blog posts or contact us directly. We’re here to help make your day unforgettable.


The Greenhouse Venue

145 Lee Rd 223

Smiths Station AL 36877

334-557-0800


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